How to save a life…

The post title is a song by The Fray and is a must listen...
To continue with my ordeal, this post is an emergency reaction to formative minds. Yes, my Tinku finally wrote (check out his blog here) a few lines on his most coveted topic Break Up. A condition which can be best experienced than explained. (If you are going through such a phase, you might as well appreciate this bullshit)
He spoke about sleepless nights and time healing the wounds and I wish to add my two cents about things that actually ruin a person. It is always interesting to read about someone’s turmoil but it takes lot of heart to feel what you go through in a break up. As the human tendency goes,the general advice flows in from all directions:
- You should move on
- You are stronger than that Yaar
- He/she will understand you someday
- Tension mat lo…
- blah blah blah…
In my opinion, the easiest thing to do is to give an opinion, be judgmental on others life and pass what one of my legendary friend calls as ‘sweeping statements’. I feel that if you really care, then what you need to do is listen. Hear him out and be there as a friend. It is not a big ask and allow him/her to find his own way. Nobody wants his life to be ever controlled by a third person and if you are able to understand this opinion, then this post needn’t be stretched.
I am no expert on relationships, but I do realize that it is tough to mend a broken heart. Always try not to hurt any person’s emotions because someday it will come back to you and when it does, it is the worst position to be in.
When someone loves a person, he imagines his whole world with that individual and with a break up, that world becomes another PURSUIT OF THE IMPOSSIBLE DREAM. Life has strange ways to teach us lessons doesn’t it!
your comforting words can never satisfy a person't desire to be with his loved one, always appreciate this fact and you'll be able to understand why certain people behave abnormally in a break up.
I prefer to rest my voice here… in the meanwhile, always try to follow your heart. Life has lesser regrets that ways.
Take care… :)

p.s. - smile from your heart and you will have your life with you.